
š Keeping the Peace in Our Relationships
By Mary Wells
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Peace. Itās something we all desireābut for Kingdom Citizens, itās more than just a feeling. Itās a command rooted in love and obedience to God.
When it comes to our relationshipsāfamily, friends, coworkers, or community connectionsāpeace might not always look the same. Sometimes it means staying close. Other times, peace means loving someone from a distance. And thatās okay.
Even if a relationship no longer aligns, is no longer in agreement, or the season has simply ended, weāre still called to show love:
āLove your neighbor as you love yourself.ā ā Matthew 22:39 (GNB)
⨠What Peace Looks Like for Kingdom Citizens
As Kingdom Citizens, we are called to be peacemakersānot just peacekeepers. Peacemakers actively pursue peace in every relationship.
āHappy are those who work for peace; God will call them his children!ā ā one of our offerings in the The Matthew 5:9 (GNB)
Why?
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Because God commands it.
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Because peace is a lifestyle.
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Because God blesses those who pursue it.
āDo everything possible on your part to live in peace with everybody.ā ā Romans 12:18 (GNB)
āGod blesses those who work for peace; they will be called God's children!ā ā Matthew 5:9 (GNB)
Ask yourself:
"Did I move in peace? Did I reflect Godās love in this relationship?"
If the answer is yes, then you are walking in Kingdom peace.
š¬ Personal Testimony
This season of my life is incredibly fullāprojects shifting, schedules changing, and family life requiring more of me.
Recently, I had to cancel a previously scheduled meeting three times. When I was gently called out about it, I chose not to defend or over-explain. I simply responded with peace and an apology.
Why?
Because God knows my heart and what Iām carrying. I made the decision not to move forward with that commitment and instead offered a blessing to the other person.
Thatās peace in actionāand obedience to Godās prompting.
šæ Three Relationship Touchpoints to Reflect On:
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Evaluate the Alignment
Is this relationship aligned with your current season and assignment? -
Seek Godās Voice
What is the Holy Spirit revealing about this relationship? -
Respond Peacefully
You may see this person again. Keep the door open with love, not offense.
ā Daily Peacemaker Checklist
Use this checklist as your peace posture this week:
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āļø Did I pause and pray before I responded?
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š¬ Was my tone and language rooted in love?
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š± Did I let go of needing to be right?
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š¤ Did I offer understanding over judgment?
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š Did I reflect Godās peace even when it wasnāt easy?
š The Impact of a Peacemaker
Being a peacemaker is not about weaknessāitās about strength through obedience. Let peace be your goal this week.
Speak with grace. Love through truth. And reflect Kingdom peace.
To access our FREE Daily Peacemaker Checklist, click the link below:
https://www.onewordencourage.com/products/the-daily-peacemaker-checklist
Stay encouraged. Your one word of peace matters.